Facing an unexpected pregnancy can stir up many emotions—not only for you but also for your partner. Deciding what to do next is a big choice, and having an open, honest conversation can help you understand each other and how to move forward.
If you’re currently pregnant and need a safe and confidential place to receive no-cost services like a limited ultrasound and learn about your options, schedule a confidential appointment at Alpha Center today.
Here are helpful tips for talking with your partner about all your options.
Start with Honesty
It’s normal to feel nervous about sharing your pregnancy news and thoughts on the future with your partner. It’s a significant moment.
As you share the news and your feelings, be as clear and honest as possible. Where do you see yourself and your partner a year from now and long-term? What options are you leaning toward?
Let your partner know where you stand and that you’d like to hear their perspective. Getting on the same page is critical to determining the next steps.
Listen to Each Other
Open conversations work best when both people feel heard. Take time to listen without interrupting or assuming what your partner might think. Respect goes a long way in creating an environment where you both can share openly.
Talk Through Every Option
While abortion may be the first option that comes to mind, it’s not the only one. Parenting and adoption are also possibilities.
Talk through all three options and what they might look like for both of you. How would they work with your relationship?
Take Time to Process
You don’t have to figure everything out in one conversation. After you share the initial news and present the options, give your partner space to process. You can come back together when ready to revisit the discussion.
Find Out More Together
Visit Alpha Center to learn more about all your options and resources, and receive caring support as a couple.
Schedule your no-cost appointment today to verify your pregnancy and talk in a safe space.